Beijing, Sept 2013

Who would've thought that I would be going to China. I mean, think about it: China was never part of my bucket list and would never thought to have a chance of going there in 100 years due to the following reasons:

1. I am super-bad in Mandarin and super-bad is an understatement (at least, I take praise that my Cantonese has improved tremendously).
2. I studied all my life in a Sekolah Kebangsaan and speak English at home, therefore has no inkling of China history and nothing from China or that part of Asia has ever interests me (only a peek of its history through 'over-dramatized' TVB drama/movies, and that's Hong Kong, btw). I am highly influenced by Western culture, and
3. The horror stories of the unfriendliness of the people, toilet hygiene, and also elements of 'fakeness' everywhere.

Let me reiterate that if you don't experience the country/city yourself by stepping foot there, don't go having a bad impressions of the country from here-say. Any country/city has its pros and cons but somehow, Beijing..really impresses me a lot for a first timer in China. That's why, perhaps, being well-traveled is important.

I told my boss I'll opt out of the project in the US because of my looming wedding and they already dedicate another staff to be there. I was one of the staff going together with my 4 big bosses to Beijing....just because I looked Chinese! Errr....and my boss actually thought I could speak Mandarin. Hehehe...Boss kena tipu: don't know that I am a banana! Never judge me by its cover. LOL!

The city:

City of Beijing on a weekday

City of Beijing is very modern but here and there you'll see a mix of old chinese gothic roofed-buildings. I was first impressed with the type of cars driven here - predominantly Volkswagen, Merz and Nissan Teana. No Kancil-small cars. I may have a early impression being in Singapore minus the traffic jam. The traffic is bad relatively but at a similar capacity with KL. I heard it could be worse. To me, town planning in Klang Valley is lousy compared to Beijing though the latter has existed for thousands of years. There were bicycles but it's getting rarer according to the hoteliers there. I am amazed by Beijing's cleanliness in general, and I was lucky there wasn't smog problems when I was there. The subways are hyper-packed with human on rush hour (well, which country isn't on rush hour?), but the subway is really well-connected throughout the city. I'd rather walk (if you know me, I would have ran) the whole Beijing than take public transport, but I am here for business, not leisure.

From my window

Kerry Hotel, Beijing:
I cannot be happier to describe the 5-star hotel we are staying in Beijing. Amazingly, amazingly amazingly unexpectedly AMAZING! Of course you'll get amazing because I paid RM1200.00 per night for non-resort hotel. Boss say nvm, claim back mar :-P. Imagine, my CEO told me that there are much nicer hotels than Kerry but they particularly like the facilities here. Whadaya mean "BETTER HOTELS OUT THERE?!?!?!!" I mean, what could be better than Kerry Hotel, ah? I feel so suaku!

Kerry Hotel, Shangri La, Beijing

From the outside, it's like a normal building, but voila...inside the hotel is a different story. I don't know where to start to describe it's amazing interior and services:

Kerry Hotel is owned by Kerry Holdings, Shangri La brand....by our own Robert Kuok! Ahem, he sponsored my whole Ph.D degree. Thank you, thank you. There are many Shangri-Las around, and Kerry Hotel is one of them. Service at Premier Lounge is top notch with free food and (alcoholic) drinks anytime of the day. We spend a lot of time there for breakfast, lunch and hi-tea. Swimming pool is set indoor, next to the gym and is Olympic size...with heater weiii! The gym is very huge with full equipment range and is opened 24 hours. Dressing room is also 24 hours with amazing dressing tables, sauna and jacuzzi.

Best indoor swimming pool ever. 2 pools some more.

Dressing table 

24 hours extensive gym.

Bed is King size and super soft with a choice of any type of pillow. Then, there's the bathroom and toilet, ahhh....where do I begin? Fully automated toilet bowl and drys your ass some more at various drying capacities, pressure and position. Too much details, opps. I main tekan-tekan a remote control, a TV-screen pops up on my freakin' mirror. EVERYTHING in the room is Loccitane. Kiasu as I admit I am, I grabbed a whole lot of stuff from the bathroom into my luggage. Hello, I paid RM1200 for this place? (Protruding kiasu-ness).

Ini baru standard room....Wonder what the suite looks like?

Pressure. I went the max and something you don't wanna try.

There's a coffee maker for 3 different type of espresso beans. Everything in the refrigerator is free, including the alcoholic drinks. Then there's fruits servings everyday: one of the fruits include the HUGE FRESH winter dates (mind you, not dried) that tasted like pears. Mooncake in Beijing is different skin from mooncakes from Malaysia too.

Coffee maker and a variety of espresso

Fresh winter dates and mooncake. Mooncake festival was just around the corner

The Business Lounge in hotel is like butler service, and once again jakun like me tried to absorbed all in. Free flow of alcoholic beverages. We've got like food prepare by a Malaysian chef just for us, as they know we needed to double check on the handling of meals (no pork). Coffee is like 'EVERYDAY'. The hotel lent me an iPad for my use in Beijing. Woh...I cannot believe that either.

Trips elsewhere in Beijing
First time in Beijing, my colleague and I together wants to see the famous Forbidden City. But for some reason, it was 'forbidden' for visitors to enter that day. I mean, it hasn't been closed for thousands of years, and when Ivy Chai arrives in Beijing, they were closed for business. WHAT ARE THE FREAKIN' CHANCES?!!!!? I was so angry, I hated Beijing for a while. But let me tell you, the vicinity of the exterior walls (including Tiananmen) was itself an amazing sight. You don't need to go inside the walls to know how amazing the Chinese Civilization was and is. It was immense: Willow trees, rivers of green, cool breeze, amazing architecture, the beautiful parks made me imagined the extend of its interior even more. What an eye-opener. But I must blame my freakin' luck that the Forbidden city was forbidden to me. I will be back.

Shit! When I am here, you close door!

Tiananmen

River surrounding the exterior of the palace

I heart willow trees. The parks here are so serene, though in the city

Having not much time, we went around Beijing area by foot, but Beijing is quite a maze. We got lost. I was pretty confident about my new-found language skills until I ask about the subway in Mandarin to a young Chinese couple, but who stared at me in absurdity and to the disgrace of my chinesey slang. They replied in English. Phew!


The Banquet:
There was this vintage old antique restaurant (blazing amazing from the external) where lunch started with an assortment of nuts, tea-time. Main course lobster, stewed lamb, la-mien, etc. It was not some regular luncheon. It was a banquet!! What can I say...I had the time of my life in Beijing. We took time off to do some shopping, but which I bought nothing. The weather in September was just right - not too cold, not too warm.

Accomplished:
1. Spoke complete sentences in Mandarin, and even gave a short speech in Mandarin (a yum seng toast) in one of the best dining experience in my life. No, I wasn't drunk.
2. Drank good coffee everyday when I thought China is good only for its tea.
3. Ate yummy and super-cheap siew-long-pao. RM4 for 3 pieces. Come to think of it, Din Tai Fung ones suck!

Did not accomplish (and will be back with a vengeance):
1. Peking duck. Duck was a big no-no to my colleagues, and I doubt I can finish a whole roast duck myself. And they don't sell by plate.
2. Imperial palace/Gu Gong - the Forbidden City was closed for an event when I was there. I blame it on my luck. I am going again soon, and they may closed it again due to a terrorist attack at Tiananmen recently.

HAVE TO SAY: I ENJOYED and HEART BEIJING!

At the Gold Club Lounge at Beijing Airport...heading back to KL.

Next post: TIANJIN - luxurious food (I am getting bored of luxury :-P), yum sengs, badminton Malaysia vs. China, and lots of oil. All next!

4th Marathon - SCKLM'13

42.195 km was torture last time I did it in Shah Alam. I found out why I was so slow in Malaysia Women's Marathon, Shah Alam back in April. It wasn't that I lacked training because I sure did lots of runs; it was the shoes. Sad to say, Sketchers GoRun2 didn't do it for me for longer than half marathons. No offence, but my Sketchers did help me PB-ed through several half-marathons (e.g. Bidor Marathon 2012). I conquered a hilly route with those shoes, but I felt it was never as comfy as a Adizero Tempo for longer distances. Sketchers was light, but it has too much padding, hence I felt really hot and sweaty in it. Soon after I went through several races with my GoRun, I bought a pair of Adizero. I had once an Adizero before several years back, so I know my feet was very happy to have found its friend again. And this is the first time an Adizero has ever been featured in my Full Marathon.

I fed myself well throughout the week and had many good night's sleep. I surprised myself this year because every time I have a Full Marathon, I suffered insomnia and had jitters at least for 2 days before the race. This year, I slept at 10 pm like a pig, woke up at 2.30 sharp, drove my hubby and myself to JKR building and park (that's the 40 km distance marker!) and walked like a soldier to Dataran Merdeka. I felt normal. I believed the calmness was due to sufficient sleep and no expectations on my performance this year. All I told myself is that I am doing this ALONE this time as my hubby is not pacing with me anymore just like the previous 3 FMs before, and just beat my previous timing of 5hr:47min.

I was taunted by my hubby that I constantly hit the wall after 35 km. People called it 'hitting-the-wall' because you just wanna give up that time and there's like some 'wall' blocking your mind and physical self from pushing any further beyond this point. So, his words became my mantra throughout the race, and I wanted to prove him and myself wrong. I told myself no matter if my leg broke or if my mind went berserk, I need to beat that freaking 35 km. All by myself.

I changed strategy this time. I purposely started in my regular half marathon pace and reach the 10 km mark in 1:05. I also reach the 21 km mark at 2:20 which is also exactly where I would be at a half-marathon race. My strategy was such as I don't care because I knew I am going to hit the wall anyway, but at least I have locked in a quick 21 distance. And also beat the sun.This strategy was rather 'satisfying'. I didn't wanna do a 21 km in 3-hour like previously. I knew I can never run fast after 21km anyway even if I ran a very very slow first half, so my as well do a fast one at the early stage. I learnt a lot about myself after years of running. My limitations and fortes.

21 km mark was about Jalan Raja Chulan. I knew this is it! This is where the real challenge begins for me. The sun has begun to rise and I stopped on every water stations (every 2 km) for a very quick replenishing of my salty systems. I started my runs immediately after each water stations, unlike previous FMs, where I would walk about 500m before starting my pace again. Good strategy this time, it seems.

I reached the 30 km mark on a hot-spot/hot-stretch. Sigh. First, some driver from cars that were caught in the road-blocks were heating up verbally towards the volunteers and traffic police. And this was where the sun was the hottest. It was sooo damn hot that I had a bit of headache creeping up and start topping up on my sunscreen. I need to look pretty, fair, and lovely on my wedding, ok? I had a feeling that this year was hotter than last years. Are you sure this was the same SUN??!?!! Seems just like another solar system's just crashed onto our planet.

30 km was where I told myself: "haiya...just run lahhh". Because at that time my legs still felt great (no pain yet!) and I picked up pace, not bothering of the sun because I believed in my fully-secured white ICI-painted face. Some guy who passed me looked back to note who the hell is this hideous looking running clown. Escaped from a circus ke ape?

35 km: Hey, not too bad. Legs was still fine, but pain starts to creep in on my right thigh (only!) (as usual!). However, I guess the Deep Heat I was carrying was like holy water - soothing the pain. Stride problems, I know. Reached Jalan Duta, turning into our ever familiar Bukit Tunku where we do our weekly LSD/Double hill training. Legs still doing ok. Not bad. Hey, familiarity of the route is an advantage! Guess what, I took a can of Nescafe Ice and I literally fall to my knees and thanked the founder of this wonderful cold drink (Nestle??). Thank you non-official, friendly water-stations. These people are life savers and are wondrous people for standing in the sun serving FOC drinks and fruits. I noticed one of the supporters was my colleague. God bless them all!



Guess what, I didn't hit the wall at 35km. At this point forth, I said: "wow, I felt okay. Let's walk a little at Tijani there and up the 30 degree slope". After the slope, it was 37 km and I was running(!) down towards JKR (saw my car, wishing I could get some aircon from it just for a minute!).


And for the first time ever, I passed the "hitting-the-wall' test.

About the 36th km

40km. I knew Jalan Raja Laut would be a pain in the ass because that's where you see pasar malam 10km, 21km runners (not all, but some berpegangan tangan, berpeluk-pelukan sambil berlengang lenguk). No offense y'all, but sometimes I wanna tell them that the finish line is soooo near di, just put some effort and run there, please. I had to maneuver the last 2.195 km like a freakin' retard to the finished line. Checked my watch: 5hrs:20 min.

Last few metres, I spotted Vincent who already made an agreement with me to take my pics at the finish line. So *snap**snap*. Checked my watched, raised my hands like a champion, no wall in front of me, smiled like a clown, and crossed the finished line in 5hr:25min. Definitely a Personal Best.

Vincent took this. Left 0.195 km to the finish line.

But if you don't know yet, I am-out-of-races (but not runs) for my wedding preparations and a lot of skin-conservation to be done.

Sporty vacay

Hey, dive trip (e.g. Tioman) don't count as vacay in my dictionary. Dive trips are dive trips, while vacations are defined as trips where your luggage is void of fins and masks. Let's not talk about BCDs, yah.

Welcoming mascot

Fong's company had their company trip in Vietnam last year, and this year the bosses want to do it locally. I have been to Pangkor Island many times and to Pangkor Island Beach Resort, is my second. It was previously known as Pan Pacific Hotel. This hotel is situated at Teluk Dalam and is the only hotel in that area. We've got ourseves the sea-view room, which is absolutely gorgeous. I could just wake up everyday to the twinkling sparkles of sunrays over the horizon.

I was warned before by my parents of its apparent infestation of little jelly fishes of Pangkor beaches. Which was true because I saw them with my own eyes (15 years ago?), a school of jelly fishes, transparent and as small as your thumb clouding the seaside area, basking under the rays of the sun. It's seasonal, I believed. I was unpertubed by warnings, and jump straight into the waters with my amazing new red bikini. I somehow felt liberated because it has been some time since I swam in the sea without the 'straight-jackets' (read: BCD) and I should say, inconvenience of dive masks and fins and stuffs dangling all over. The last time I sensed a similar 'freedom' was in Phuket beach.

From our balcony

 

Of course, people like us would never be satisfied, given the ample time for pure relaxation and given the luxuries of an amazing hotel room, if without some outdoor activities. To us both, and that's how our relationship remain sustainable, are the similar demands we see in our lives: SPORTS.

First up, canoeing. Hardest sh*t you've ever done. Case close.

Second, bicycling. Second hardest sports I've done. We've gotten ourselves a BMX each (FOC by the company) and ignoring the advice to only cycle within the vincinity of the resort, went beyond the boundaries. Not too long after cycling, I had crotch problems. I supposed that's normal if you don't wear specific cycling pants with crotch-padings? Yes, hard sports.

Third, archery: I was really keen to shoot an arrow or two, but once I saw the blue-blacks suffered by our local Legolas-es, I pulled out from the sport immediately. I guess sitting aside, being Arwen and maintaining my classic beauty ain't too bad. Sometimes, we can't have it all. Supporting my hubby, he sure did well. Amongst his colleagues, I think he had quite a good chance of killing more trolls than the rest of the heroic men of middle earth (though I wish he were taller, he would look more like Orlando Bloom, rather than the haflings. Opps! :-P)

Fourth, running: Of course, running! Why would we ever miss OUR sport out even if it's vacation, eh!? I doubt we can never give this sport a miss even in our romantic honeymoon. Since we've already had a good overview of the whole island from the resort's van who took us out for ikan masin shopping and luncheon, we anticipated the hilly routes of the entire island.

We started of from the hotel lobby of course (warming up at the lobby area), straight to Teluk Dalam, and then ran non-all the way to Teluk Nipah and lastly made a pit-stop (for a much needed teh-ais) at the infamous Pasir Bogak beach. Total 7 km. Felt like 10 km because the slopes and hills are really unforgiving. Double hill is airplane runway compared to the island roads. Then, all the way back to the hotel again for a full 7km. Grand total: 14 km (felt like 20km).

Of course, sporty people like us have some downtime and coffee too: We enjoyed our romantic dinner on the first night; second night was barbeque buffet by the pool while the last night we gathered for 2 beer towers over an entertaining Filipino live band.

Coffee is a must any time, any where

 

 By the pool

Monkeys are a nuisance here. Well, having no fear whatsoever of humans, these monkeys enters rooms and stick to the hotel corridors in anticipation of generous guests offering food (please don't!). One of our friends was attacked as she was entering the hotel room cause...maybe the monkeys smelt ikan masin she brought back from the market...kott? And some birds here are also friendly (read: peacock and peahen). These birds may just perch on your baclcony and leave a poo poo or two as a daily welcome gift.

The queen's perch

Okay, food wise - fresh and taste good. I am not such a foodie, so my vocabulary for food is very limited, but I am glad we were given a sumptious seafood luncheon at one of the Chinese restaurants at Pangkor town. As usual, I sat back and relax while my hubby peels all the prawns for me to eat. Can I hear an Amen to that?



Other pictures:

 Some temple

 

                                               Some taxidermied, bloated porcupine fish

Some ikan masin factory visit: original satay ikan, ikan masin basking, etc

Some kota.

 

Coffee for runners

Runner or not, I am drinking my coffee. But being a runner makes coffee more worth it.

Pei Pei, our maltese

Not many people would've realised that our family has gotten ourselves a maltese. She's called Pei Pei.

Her name was never ours to give as Pei Pei's had a former owner was from mainland China during which Pei Pei (still a puppy) was obtained from this petshop. When she was 9 months old, the owner had to return to China and the owner couldn't sleep for weeks (very attached to Pei Pei) knowing her dog would be given away to another family.

Our family had many pets before this such as tortoises, a talking mynah and fishes, but never a dog. My dad was first to object to even the thought of having a dog in the house, what more, a dog that doesn't guard (not a guard dog). He thought of the most ridiculous excuses to say (to the former owner) even just before the owner and dog arrives from Penang. My mum had to brave herself to receive this dog too but was more opened to receiving the dog than my sceptical dad.

But lo and behold, when Pei Pei arrive at our doorstep, my dad had this broad smile - cheek-to-cheek. He nodded with approval of the cute maltese running across the porch. First sentence from my 'reluctant' dad was: "Wahh, nice, nice, nice colour".  Her fur is whitish-gold. The owner left in sadness and dare not even turn back to look when Pei Pei entered our door. Pei Pei cried, scratched the main door, and went berserk when she soon realised that her owner was missing for the longest time. But after a few hours, she kinda understood that her former owner will never be coming back. *Sobs* I can feel how heartbreaking that would be to a loyal dog. Any dog.

At the beginning she was most attached to my younger brother. Pei Pei never left his side while my brother watches TV, washes his car, eats, etc. But when my brother left for KL, Pei Pei is more than ever closer to my mum 'til today. Pei Pei wants nobody (not even my dad) but my mum. She will quiver and show all sorts of (human) emotions when my mum plays or doesn't play with her. She takes orders very well - in both Mandarin and English! She doesn't poo poo or pee pee in various places in the house but one particular corner outside the house. My dad was delighted with Pei Pei's behaviour and decent toilet habits, and now she's inducted into the family as...Chai Pei Pei. :-P

Characteristic of Pei Pei: Brilliant round eyes as if lined with mascara. She has this seng-mouk demeanour and has this attentive look all the time (except sleeping or sad). Yes, she expresses sadness like any human by cupping her head lying on the floor. She hates visitors and barks and snarls at visitors, but if she realises the visitors are here to stay for a while she'll be all right. She is all out playful and love her stuff toys, but loves to play throw-catch at any time of the day, with anyone.

She is especially annoyed with 'UGLY' people or dogs (read: dirty). That's where our parents called her a China-doll (got this trait from previous owner?? :-P). Apparently she's hates all stray dogs, ignoring them, but lures our neighbour's handsome & sturdy poodle. Our new home in Tambun is still renovating and she doesn't like any of the workers or contractors touching her. Opps. She will knowingly bite them if they do. Though her bites are absolutely harmless, her teeth glimmers in evil as she snarls at 'ugly' people. Pei Pei barked at my hubby incessantly when he was drench in sweat after some carpentry work on our new house in Puchong. Pei Pei doesn't like dirty looks. She smells ugliness. Yes, call it racist.

She loves her weekly bath and my mum would dry her fur with hair-dryer. She wouldn't move an inch when my mum blow-dry and combs her long tangled fur. You can tell, this china-upbringing doggy doesn't mind the pain of being pretty! She is also very 'Chinese'  kiasu where she can play with you one minute and then bark at you when you don't let her win in the game. Say for instance - she wants to play catch, but you don't let her pick up the ball (after the throw), she will be super furious and hurl (read: bark) *dog profanities* at you and later ignore you...forever. She has to win in any game and throws.

Tricks: Pei Pei can stand up on her hind legs for 10 seconds(!) and at the same time doing "Gong-xi, Gong-xi" (think: Chinese New Year) with her body turning around 720 degrees! She knows the command: "Shake hands, left hand, right hand" (by right, legs actually). She also leads my mum to fetch her something by gnawing her finger and leading that finger to the unreachable toy. She once licked my mum's cooking wound daily until it healed!

Pei Pei pakai mascara

As for me, dogs are really smart, loyal and no doubt are really men's best friend. Since I had Pei Pei, I just cannot imagine now our lives, particularly my mum, without her. I finally have a sista! There's a recent case in the news of a Muslim dog trainer caught feeding and training dogs, and she was caught and brought to jail. Oh well, I don't really know what the Quran said about dogs (sorry, not ignorant, just not versed), but I generally think she's still not a CRIMINAL to the extend she had to be handcuffed. She may have broken an Islamic law or two, yes, but it ain't hard core criminal yah? Let's just say, she probably shouldn't show it openly and put a religious music as background, but on a personal note, I had veterinarian Malay friends that touches dogs every single day; saw her at the annual Dogathon checking 100++ dogs for fleas, and no qualms. She was her hands with clay after a days work. You know who should be handcuffed? - those who physically abuse dogs, cats and other cute pets and irresponsible pet owners who let their dogs out to bite joggers.

Ok, just my 2 cents.

Peace out. Woof-out!

There will only be one shot at this.

Unlike those times (yes, your mum and dad's time) where wedding consisted only of a:

1. Wedding reception/day/dinner/luncheon in a restaurant/community hall.

2. Studio photo which photographs you and your spouse, and it only consist of 2 frames:

    i) First frame: Bride and Groom standing hand in hand with each other.

    ii) Second frame: Bride sits on a chair and Groom standing next to her.

3. All with camera film rolls. Photoshop does not exist yet.

....while in this decade, a wedding gets much more complicated.

Reception

This part cannot avoid if you are Chinese. But hey, exceptions exists whereby I've got this colleague who has not conducted her wedding reception since 5 years back. She's legally married, but no reception. Well, not a problem actually. It was for the reason of cost and hassle. Wedding receptions ain't cheap anymore. If ambient is your choice i.e. hotel, then there might be a trade-off in terms of food quality and taste, and vice versa. No doubt some places have the best of both worlds.

Customs like tea ceremony for the Chinese is unavoidable. I've not seen a Chinese wedding that has not had their tea ceremony done. But many Chinese (many Gen X and Y who has had their knowledge of Chinese customs diluted) do not perform the traditional guo dai lei (betrothal gifts) anymore. Also many Chinese has followed the western tradition completely - which is completely fine - though I find the traditional Chinese customs still relevant, symbolical, and personally - a must. Nothing to do with religion, mind you. It's all customs that I believe should be kept through the generations and not get adulterated by other wedding styles.

Helloooo, we even sought Mak Seng Loong for their timing and date selections. Again, nothing religious.

Don't ask me the content. All in chinese wei.

The great outdoors

The biggest trend setter in the current wedding scene. To say this trend is 'current' is not entirely correct either. Indoor studio photoshoot has always been a normal thing to do. But the biggest wedding trend is to bring your outdoor photoshoot to some scenic or lomo places, and trendier still - a foreign land where glaciers, trees, seas and sand are considered exquisite and exotic. Many couples has gone the distance to personalized their pre-wedding shoot in some alien country or location, somehow to distinguish themselves from the rest of the pack. NZ, Melbourne, Bali, Taiwan, Korea, Italy, etc. are no longer a dream-come-true but rather an affordable and practical feat for many couples.

I've got my pre-wedding shoot in a distant place (disctant from KL lah) but not a foreign land.We chose this place as to capture pre-wedding photo with my husband because this was where we had our first out-of-KL&Ipoh holiday trip and how we together hike up the hills and took paths that no normal person would do. Regular people will just drive up there, but because we both ain't 'regular people', we walked up miles to get to that scenic site. Albeit the local venue, it was one of my most memorable trip ever. It was our connection to that location. The cooling weather was also one reason I select this location. When you've got cool weather, the whole tedious photoshoot process becomes bearable and pleasurable. My elaborated dress has got no sweat! We brought our own props to personalize our outdoor shoot. On that day, rain clouds are missing (yay!), the sun gave just the right amount of light (to the photographer's delight), the crowd and traffic was forgiving (it was non-peak period, puasa month), and the sunset was amazing!

Baby boomers just like my parents never had such chance to go to a outdoor photoshooting found such trends intimidating and a waste of money. Oh well, how could they understand when their marriage consisted only of 2 studio photos - one with their bodies in it and another with my late grandparents and their....err...tai-kam-che in it. wtf!

Copy-paste, Alt-delete

One of the greatest invention ever(?) is the digital camera. So I thought. Then, came Instagram with various lomo filters. Those already brought great differences between the baby-boomers compared to the present Gen X and Y. We now have many options in photography:

Those times, camera film rolls are expensive and processing them into prints requires at least a week (dark blue room, remember?). Photographers at those times take every shot extremely cautiously so that they don't waste frames. One chance only. Nowadays, photographers go frenzy with the snapping. If don't like...just delete. Actually, if don't like....can Photoshop. 

So these Bridal Shop offers you packages that has >100 shots, indoor and outdoor. Plus giving you the option to choose your photos to photoshop before printing them out in albums. They photoshopped out my mole. wth. That's like....travesty ok! I knew my albums would be nicely wrapped and collect dust until one day my grandchildren finds them under the bed or on top of the cupboard and decided to sell them off at a junkyard sale, therefore I didn't splurge on our pre-wedding shoot although we've gotten ourselves a great bargain from this bridal shop in Ipoh. 

Any bridal package comes with makeup and hairdo, of course. Make up for the photoshoot was purportedly done unnatural (read: OTT) because in prewedding shoots, the background elements and picturesque scenery may drown your looks. Imagine a leafy tea bush looking nicer than my beautiful face? I can't. So my make up artist (FYI, she's patient and amazing!) put on tonnes of foundation and concealer and spent 3 hours/day mainly on my eyes alone - carving out my brows, bringing out my lashes, and reinforced my double eye-lids. Total: 3 hours X 2 days of photoshoot = 6 hours. I had this huge big eyes that even my mum can't recognize me. Plus, you can Photoshop everything, so...imagine the outcome?!

Argh, a blurry handphone pic of me. Love this hairdo

One of the 7 dresses. SEVEN!

Getting ready for family shoot

We've gotten ourselves an award-winning photographer for my actual wedding day and night (Read: mahal giler). My justification: I tone down on my pre-wedding, but I splurge on my actual day wedding photographer.

Now, if my parents are reading this, they are sure to mutilate me. 

One chance to do this in this lifetime. Tell you honestly, I didn't think earlier I would have enjoyed planning my wedding this much . It' ain't going to be a royal, dreamy or a fantasy wedding like Kim Kardashian's. In fact, I don't have a dream wedding in mind since young. But it's good enough for me. Personalized.